In a box full of suggestions given to me daily by my peers, on how to dress up and how to improve my personality, there is just one suggestion slip that keeps me going on day-in and day-night, is the one that has GOOD JOB written on it, and guess who has written that, ME, because I have my own style, my own swag, my own dressing mantra. If someone says they have nailed the women’s fashion, trust me, it is the most erroneous statement ever made Browsing through online shopping for girls one comes across several wafer-thin models exhibiting the latest in online shopping fashion, is the normal thin, really THIN?? Or is it just to confuse you and me to feel depressed about our body shapes.
I met some friends today for coffee, we as usual, had our share of gossip when we started discussing about how difficult it is to dress well if you are not proportionate. The joker of the group, a roly-poly girl said, I don’t know about others, but I am happy as I am well rounded at all places including my face. This just cracked up everyone, but the serious issue was still out in the open. I was defensive as usual and told them that no matter what size you are, if you are confident enough to carry it well you will look nice no matter anyone says. Two of them said, “Do you guys have any idea how bad it is for us, let alone buying anything new from the women’s fashion through online shopping fashion? We can’t go out for running or can’t join the gym because men make us uncomfortable with all that ogling”
I always wanted well-rounded, big breasts, but never thought it from this angle. One of them said, the accidental brushing by the male stewards while serving food at restaurants or flights just makes her gag. I was taken aback by all this information and always thought that women who are well-endowed are the luckiest of all. Issues like being addressed by name calling on their heavy boobs in public places to not being able to buy stylish-women’s fashion to not being able to find a good bra that supports their breasts is the common problems faced by them.
Is looking sexual in anything you wear a bad thing? Is your partner paying attention to just your heavier assets, acceptable? Your partner telling you to wear what, that can modestly cover you nicely while going out allowed in a relationship? People constantly harass you about questions relating your back, is not concern, is it? It can never be, all this is mind-boggling. I never thought having big breasts can be inconvenient too, having looked at Victoria Secret’s model idolised as the true sex symbols all my life, all this information was really petrifying. A big salute to all the women who have been enduring all this and moving ahead in life with a big smile, you go girl!
Though our online shopping for girls sites have been exhibiting a lot of women’s fashion in latest styles in plus sizes, but it’s not exactly plus all places, is it. Shoulders? CHECK. Length? CHECK. Waist? CHECK. Bust? Hmmmm, no. Why are there no manufacturers that construct clothes for this type of body shape too? And people in the underwear business, please, my personal request on behalf of all my friends, please start making nice and cute bras in all sizes, we have enough things to cause turbulence.Comments Off on STRUGGLES FACED BY A WOMAN WITH BIG BOOBS